Ever since we got married, Austin and I have always loved to travel together. Now that we have two little ones, traveling is a bit different, that’s for sure. However, we have tried not to let 2 kids stop us from continuing our adventures. In fact, it just makes these adventures even more…adventurous ! 😉
At this point, we have traveled with Ansley a handful of times on both road trips and plane rides. So, we have figured out a pretty good system for one kid.
In December 2022, when Knox was about 4.5 months old, he went on his first plane ride. This time it was just mom, dad and Knox, for a wedding. We were able to ease into traveling with a baby again before traveling with both kids at the same time.
A little over a month later, we all 4 hopped on a plane to go visit my sister and her family in Boston! This was the first time we had traveled with both kids on a plane.
Packing for 2 Kids
When it comes to packing, I typically try to pack for the kids before packing for myself. I highly recommend using packing cubes for babies and toddlers to keep all of their tiny items contained. We also usually have a carry on size suitcase for each kid, so they have enough space for clothes (especially winter clothes, since they tend to take up more space), sound machines, monitors and also to keep their items separated.
Before putting items in their suitcase, I lay out outfits, pajamas, socks, jackets, panties/diapers, etc to make sure we have enough for each day, plus an extra outfit or two. *Tip: if you will be somewhere with a washing machine, take advantage of that, so you don’t have to overpack extra items*.
I personally like to bring our own monitors and sound machines when we travel, so we can keep the kids’ routines as similar as possible when we are away. We use this dual monitor at home, which also works great for traveling. I also love our Lollipop monitor too, which can be accessed from your phone if you’re away from the baby. When it comes to sleep for the baby, we typically borrow a crib or pack n play depending on where we are staying (most hotels have cribs you can request). However, in some cases, we may bring our own pack n play.
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Traveling with a baby involves bringing a few extra things like bottles, potentially a pump, pacis, toys, etc. I typically pack a separate tote with those items to keep them separated and then put them in the suitcase to check. I will, however; leave a few of those items in the diaper bag for the plane.Â
When it comes to packing the diaper bag, I make sure to have plenty of diapers and wipes, a ziplock bag with an extra outfit for each kid, an additional ziplock bag for any potential blow outs, a couple toys or books for each kid, snacks, a small baby blanket, burp cloth, and as a breastfeeding mom, I bring my Haaka and a bottle just in case baby needs it on the plane. Most cases, I try to nurse the baby during take off and landing to avoid his ears popping, but the bottle or paci also help with that.
At the Airport
Depending on where you are going and what you will be doing, you may or may not need carseats & strollers. Some places allow you to rent them or you could potentially borrow from friends/family, but typically we like to bring ours. We have the Uppa Baby Vista Stroller and Mesa Baby Carseat, as well as the Maxi Cosi Toddler Carseat. This trip, we just brought the Uppa Baby Vista Stroller and Mesa Carseat for Knox and borrowed my sister’s toddler carseat for Ansley when needed. The Uppa Baby Vista is great for multiple kids and actually allows you to strap on an extra seat for 2-3 kids. However, we decided to leave the extra parts at home this time, and Ansley fit perfectly in the bottom basket for when her little legs needed a break.
If you are bringing a toddler carseat, we find it easiest to check it when you’re checking your luggage. After we have checked our bags (and toddler carseat, when we have it), we are able to just focus on pushing the stroller with our kids and a couple carry on bags. *Tip– TSA Precheck is a game change (with or without kids) and the stroller line in precheck is even better, at least in the super busy ATL airport. For children under 2, you don’t need to buy a plane ticket and for infants, typically, you just need to add “infant in arms” beforehand. You also typically don’t need to bring any identification for toddlers or babies, but I would always double check with your airline (usually we fly Delta). If anything, we tend to bring a copy of birth certificate, just in case.
After checking our bags, we push our stroller all the way until we are getting onto the plane and will just take the carseat off and fold up the stroller at the end of the walk way to be checked before getting on the plane. We have a carseat cover and stroller cover to prevent them from getting super wet, dirty, or damaged (unfortunately, most airlines don’t care about your expensive strollers and just throw them around, so it’s a risk we take when checking them). In some cases, if you know you will have an extra seat, you could bring your carseat on the plane to keep your baby secured, contained and to allow them to sleep easier. We did that a few times with Ansley during the pandemic when Delta was providing an extra seat in each row. This time, we had 3 seats for all 4 of us. We were either holding Knox while Ansley was in the seat or Knox was laying down in the seat sleeping, and Ansley was on our lap or propped up sitting on the diaper bag on the floor
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On the Plane
On the plane, Ansley usually will watch a video (these toddler headphones are great for the plane) or we will bring things like crayons, coloring books, her Amazon Fire Tablet, etc to keep her entertained. For Knox, we bring a baby blanket, a large burp cloth, and our carseat cover to help with nursing and sleeping.  *Tip: lay out a blanket or big burp cloth on the seat for your baby to sleep and use the carseat cover for nursing.
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When it comes time to get off the plane, we have our carseat and stroller waiting for us, since we checked it at the gate, which makes things a whole lot easier for us as a family!
From there, we are off to enjoy our vacation!
Take the Trip!
Flying with kids isn’t necessarily the easiest thing, but we’ve learned to take the stress out of it as much as possible and just enjoy the memories we are making.
We are so glad we made the trip to Boston to visit our family and these are memories we will never forget as a family!